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Transracial Adoption
Parent's Wish List and Child's Bill of Rights
Excerpted from Inside Transracial Adoption by Gail Steinberg and Beth Hall, copyright 2000, Perspectives Press.
It would be so nice if:
- Everyone didn't think they were experts on my family.
- Nobody ever wondered if I was the best parent for my child.
- Nobody ever wondered if I was a good enough parent for my child.
- Nobody in the grocery store checkout line ever asked if my child belonged to me.
- Nobody ever asked at the playground, the emergency room or the barbershop where my child's parents were when I was right there.
- My extended family supported my decision to adopt across racial lines 100 percent!
- I was able to see beyond my experience and anticipate every time racial issues would affect my child.
- I could protect my child from all pain.
- I was always effective in building bridges to my child's culture.
- I had more energy and was able to go the extra mile every time to connect my child to her culture without sometimes making choices that were easier for me.
- I could give my child my white privilege.