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Great Expectations
Managing Surrogacy Relationships
By Sharon LaMothe
What is the working status preference of a surrogate? These questions are just the tip of the iceberg, but they open up a dialog and can make a huge difference in a surrogate relationship.
Having someone to mediate is also helpful. A successful surrogate arrangement can be done independently, but having a third party assist you with relationship management can be invaluable. Having a third party to handle the escrow account can be a great relief on both the intended parents and surrogate. Mixing the topics of money and babies is a sticky situation at best and should be avoided – if possible – in order to concentrate on the pregnancy and the surrogacy relationship. A well-managed escrow account can make all the difference.
Surrogates and the families who support them are unique and special. If desired, a lifelong friendship can evolve, but no matter what the expectations, open and honest communication is a must!